Eulogy Writing
Eulogy Writing
Gentle guidance, examples, and templates for Christian and non-denominational services. Learn how to shape a eulogy that tells the truth in love.
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Grief is holy ground. This page offers gentle, Christian-centred guidance to help you write a eulogy that remembers truthfully, forgives freely, and gives thanks for a life. With prayer, Scripture options, and practical steps, you can stand with courage and grace — instead of feeling lost for words when it matters most. Many people wish they had prepared more; you don’t have to carry that regret.
Written by author & educator Jason A. Solomon, B.Ed.
Faith-friendly templates and examples
Calming steps for difficult days
Compassionate tone, practical structure
Don’t wait, be ready with words that heal
Your guide
I am Jason A. Solomon, B.Ed. I wrote Eulogy Writing to stand with you in one of life’s hardest moments. This book blends personal experience with pastoral sensitivity, giving you clear words when words are scarce.
Many people fear public speaking, even more so in grief. Christian hope reminds us that love is stronger than death and that our words can become a blessing to those who gather. This guide helps you shape memories, include Scripture and prayer if you wish, and speak with kindness and truth.
Christ-centred compassion
Practical templates
Scripture & prayer options
The gentle pathway
A simple framework to honour a loved one, woven with Christian values of love, hope, and gratitude.
1. Remember
Gather stories that show character, not perfection: small acts of kindness, favourite sayings, faithful habits. Ask friends and family for one memory each.
2. Bless
Choose a short Bible verse or prayer that reflects their life — Psalm 23, 1 Corinthians 13, or John 14 are gentle options. Keep it brief and meaningful.
3. Honour
Shape a clear beginning, middle, and end: introduce who they were, share two or three themes with stories, close with thanks, hope, and a blessing.
4. Encourage
Offer words that comfort those gathered. Acknowledge grief, yet remind them of faith, family, and community that carry us forward together.
5. Give Thanks
Express gratitude for the time shared, the lessons learned, and the love received. This moment of thanks helps hearts find peace.
6. Send Forth
Close with a prayer or blessing that points to hope beyond loss. Simple words like “Go in peace” or “May God’s comfort be with us” offer strength and reassurance.
Free Eulogy Examples
A collection of printable sample eulogies drawn from the book — clear outlines to guide you on a difficult day.
Each example shows how to weave together stories, Scripture, and blessings in a simple structure. Use them as inspiration, or adapt them to honour your loved one with confidence and kindness.
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ExploreExtra support for calm and rest
Optional third‑party audio tools that some readers use for quiet moments. Choose what feels right for you.
15‑Minute Calming Audio
Short listening designed to help you settle the nerves and steady your breathing before you speak.
- Quick pre‑service reset
- Pairs with a short prayer
- Digital access on phone
Restful Night Bundle
Gentle tracks for winding down on heavy days. Use if it helps — prayer and Scripture may be all you need.
- Quiet background listening
- Simple, non‑intrusive
- Instant digital access
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What readers say
“I wish this book would have been available in 2002 when my mom died suddenly and unexpectedly. Looking back, if I would have had this book, I could have pieced together a nice eulogy which would have been a huge blessing. I appreciated the section on grieving as an added bonus and will refer to this book as needed.”
“This book is compassionate and faith‑filled, offering structure and comfort while keeping readers grounded in Christian faith. Including examples, scripture, and practical speaking tips, it supports anyone from first‑time speakers to those more experienced.”
“Jason A. Solomon's Eulogy Writing is an exceptional resource. The inclusion of prewritten eulogies offers practical templates, and public speaking techniques help speakers project confidence during emotionally charged moments.”
“Part personal experience and part guide, this warmly written book takes you through all the important steps. All the information is presented in a compassionate way. A great read at such an important event.”
“This is the perfect book for anyone that needs to deliver a eulogy. It includes step‑by‑step guidance, thoughtful templates, scripture, and practical techniques to deliver an honourable eulogy with grace and confidence.”
Questions you might have
Is this specifically Christian?
It is written with Christian values in mind — love, hope, gratitude — and includes optional Scripture and prayer. It is gentle and suitable for most services.
How long should a eulogy be?
Five to seven minutes is usually right. Aim for two or three short stories that reveal character, then close with thanks and a blessing.
What if I cry while speaking?
That is human and okay. Pause, breathe, sip water. If needed, ask a friend to stand beside you and finish reading.
Can I include a Bible verse?
Yes. A single short verse often carries great comfort. Consider Psalm 23, John 14:1-3, or 1 Corinthians 13:4-7.
How do I start the eulogy?
Begin by naming your relationship and offering thanks: “Good morning. My name is _____. Thank you for being here to honour _____. I want to share a few memories that show who they were.”
What if the relationship was complicated?
Speak truth with kindness. Choose memories that honour the good without pretending everything was easy. Acknowledge complexity briefly, then focus on gratitude.
What if I leave something important out?
That worry is natural. A simple framework ensures you cover what matters most — love, faith, gratitude. Without it, many speakers regret missing moments they wish they had shared.
How do I speak if I feel completely overwhelmed?
You are not alone. Many freeze on the day because emotion takes over. Having a written guide and gentle examples means you won’t lose your voice in the moment that matters most.
What if no one remembers the details I do?
That is the gift of your voice. Even one memory you share may become the story everyone holds on to. Without you, it could be lost forever.
Is it really okay to make it short?
Yes. A short, heartfelt eulogy is often more powerful than a long one. But without guidance, many people speak too little or too much — and later wish they had struck the balance.
What if my family expects me to be the one to speak?
That responsibility can feel heavy. With examples and a clear structure, you can carry it with grace — rather than risking silence or words you regret later.
Can I still write a eulogy if I didn’t know them well?
Yes. Use the memories and stories of others. The guide shows you how to weave them into a tribute. Without direction, many people struggle and the service feels incomplete.
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